{"id":1605,"date":"2024-12-10T11:36:00","date_gmt":"2024-12-10T03:36:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/safetalk.space\/blog\/?p=1605"},"modified":"2025-02-24T11:55:50","modified_gmt":"2025-02-24T03:55:50","slug":"trauma-informed-care-unresolved-traumas-impact","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/safetalk.space\/blog\/trauma-informed-care-unresolved-traumas-impact\/","title":{"rendered":"Trauma-Informed Care: Unresolved Trauma&#8217;s Impact"},"content":{"rendered":"<div data-post-content>\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"introduction\">Introduction<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Trauma affects more people than we realize, and it\u2019s not always as obvious as we think. In this episode of the <em>Let\u2019s Talk About It Podcast<\/em>, we explore what trauma truly is, why some experiences go unrecognized, and how unresolved trauma can shape mental health and daily life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"guest\">Guest Introduction<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Joining this conversation is Betty Lim, a Registered and Licensed Counsellor (<strong>KB11954, PA11572<\/strong>) specializing in Solution-Focused Brief Therapy and Person-Centred Therapy. Betty believes in creating a safe and empowering space for healing, self-discovery, and growth. She sees every person as an expert of their own life, equipped with unique strengths to navigate challenges.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"key-points\">Key Discussion Points<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>What Is Trauma and Who Experiences It?<\/strong><br>Trauma isn\u2019t just about major life-threatening events\u2014it can also be a buildup of smaller experiences that impact mental well-being. Betty explains the difference between &#8220;big T&#8221; and &#8220;small T&#8221; trauma and why many people don\u2019t realize they\u2019ve experienced it.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>The Hidden Struggles of Unrecognized Trauma<\/strong><br>Many people dismiss their own trauma, comparing it to others\u2019 experiences or believing they should have &#8220;handled it better.&#8221; Betty discusses why denial is common and how it can delay healing.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>The Stigma Around Trauma and Mental Health<\/strong><br>Even within mental health communities, people sometimes judge or minimize others&#8217; trauma. Betty addresses why trauma is subjective and why comparing struggles can be harmful.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>How Trauma Shapes Behavior and Relationships<\/strong><br>Unresolved trauma can lead to deep-seated fears, difficulty trusting others, and even physical health issues. Betty explains how trauma rewires the brain and influences emotional responses, often without people realizing it.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>What Is Trauma-Informed Care?<\/strong><br>Trauma-informed care isn\u2019t just about treating trauma\u2014it\u2019s about creating a safe, supportive environment where clients feel understood and respected. Betty shares how this approach helps minimize re-traumatization and supports long-term healing.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>The Challenges of Trauma Therapy<\/strong><br>Starting therapy can be daunting, especially for trauma survivors. Betty discusses the difficulties of opening up, facing painful emotions, and navigating the ups and downs of healing.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>The Path to Healing<\/strong><br>Therapy doesn\u2019t &#8220;cure&#8221; trauma, but it helps individuals regulate emotions, build self-awareness, and develop healthier coping strategies. Betty explains the importance of patience and self-compassion in the healing journey.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"conclusion\">Conclusion<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Trauma impacts people in different ways, but healing is possible. In this episode, Betty offers valuable insights into understanding trauma, breaking the stigma, and finding the right support.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"listen-now\">Listen to the Full Episode<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>The Let\u2019s Talk About It Podcast by SafeTalk dives into mental health topics that aren\u2019t often discussed. Join us for candid conversations with experts and individuals with lived experiences.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\ud83c\udfa7 Listen now on our YouTube channel, Spotify, and Apple Podcasts. Follow us on social media for updates!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Trauma-Informed Care: Unresolved Trauma&#039;s Impact | Let&#039;s Talk About It Podcast by SafeTalk | Ep.10\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/rKcRAnNlorI?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>You can also listen to it on Spotify:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<iframe style=\"border-radius:12px\" src=\"https:\/\/open.spotify.com\/embed\/episode\/5CRF0ZWLHAjiXbeIlZhCfn?utm_source=generator\" width=\"100%\" height=\"152\" frameBorder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"\" allow=\"autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; fullscreen; picture-in-picture\" loading=\"lazy\"><\/iframe>\n\n\n\n<p>You can also listen to it on Apple Podcasts:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<iframe allow=\"autoplay *; encrypted-media *; fullscreen *; clipboard-write\" frameborder=\"0\" height=\"175\" style=\"width:100%;max-width:100%;overflow:hidden;border-radius:10px;\" sandbox=\"allow-forms allow-popups allow-same-origin allow-scripts allow-storage-access-by-user-activation allow-top-navigation-by-user-activation\" src=\"https:\/\/embed.podcasts.apple.com\/my\/podcast\/trauma-informed-care-unresolved-traumas-impact\/id1735857127?i=1000679783131\"><\/iframe>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"show-notes\">Show Notes<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>00:00 \u2013 Introduction<\/strong><br>Betty Lim, a mental health therapist specializing in trauma-informed care, joins the conversation to discuss the impact of unresolved trauma.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>02:00 \u2013 What Is Trauma?<\/strong><br>Betty explains trauma as a response to distressing experiences and how it manifests differently for each person.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>06:30 \u2013 The Reality of Unrecognized Trauma<\/strong><br>Not all trauma is obvious. Betty discusses how smaller, repeated experiences can have a lasting impact on mental health.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>11:00 \u2013 The Stigma Around Trauma<\/strong><br>Why do people compare trauma? Betty explores common misconceptions and the harmful tendency to invalidate others\u2019 experiences.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>15:30 \u2013 Trauma\u2019s Effect on Behavior and Relationships<\/strong><br>From fear of abandonment to emotional shutdowns, Betty explains how unresolved trauma shapes interpersonal dynamics.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>19:50 \u2013 What Is Trauma-Informed Care?<\/strong><br>An overview of trauma-informed therapy, how it differs from traditional therapy, and why it matters in the healing process.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>24:40 \u2013 Challenges Trauma Survivors Face in Therapy<\/strong><br>The difficulties of opening up, confronting painful memories, and the fear of being retraumatized in a therapy setting.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>29:30 \u2013 The Ultimate Goal of Trauma Therapy<\/strong><br>Healing is not about erasing trauma but learning how to manage emotions, reactions, and relationships in a healthier way.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>33:00 \u2013 Advice for Trauma Survivors Considering Therapy<\/strong><br>Betty shares words of encouragement for those afraid to start therapy and why healing, though difficult, is worth it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>38:00 \u2013 Final Thoughts &amp; Closing<\/strong><br>A recap of key takeaways and a reminder that support is available for those struggling with trauma.<\/p>\n<\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>How does unresolved trauma impact mental health? 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